Women with IC are Awesome

Since IC is very painful at times, many of us, myself included spend a lot of time ranting and complaining. We complain about things like fatigue, spasms and all the things we can't do anymore. It is good for us to vent, but sometimes we end up sounding like sad, little puppies.

The reality is, although we are in pain, we are some of the strongest and bravest women around. We go through hell-ish times with very little help or answers from the medical community and we are still standing. A lot of people in our position would have given up a long time ago. So it is important for us to remember that women with IC are fabulous, intelligent and resilient. 


Here is a list of reasons why I think Women with IC are awesome:

-We have our own secret society of sorts and we stick together.

-We are bad ass enough to have been thrown out of a doctor's office or emergency room for standing up for our healthcare needs.

-We could win an Olympic gold medals for accurately peeing in a cup. (really, we could probably do it blind folded at this point)


-We have had doctors tell us "it is just in your head" and we kept searching for answers anyway.


-We can walk around and do tasks when we have to with smiles on our faces even if we are in 10+ pain. (most people would be curled up in a ball crying)


-We are very resourceful. We can turn almost anything into an ice pack or seat cushion if we really had to.


-We have extra compassion for others. We know that just because someone looks good on the outside, it doesn't mean that they feel good on the inside.


-We are brave enough and mature enough to talk about our bladders and vaginas publicly---a lot of people wouldn't be able to handle that.


-We can make jokes about our illness.


-We are grateful for things that a lot of pain free people take for granted. 


-We've had to reinvent our whole existence and we survived.


-We make pajamas, hospital gowns and other loose garments look good.


-We aren't afraid to stand up for other ICers and other people with invisible illnesses. 


-*We have IC, but we will never let it have us*-