It's not easy to imagine living in the shoes of another person. But let's do a little activity. Close your eyes and imagine...
Imagine waking up in the middle of the night in intense pain because you have to pee.
Imagine having to give up your favorite food because it now makes you sick.
Imagine having to cancel plans with friends because you are in so much pain you feel nauseous.
Imagine being too embarrassed to to tell those friends why you are cancelling, so people begin to stop inviting you places.
Imagine being let go from your job because you took one too many days off for a doctor's appointment.
Imagine doing chores and errands in 10 level pain with a smile on your face because you don't want your kids to know how much you're hurting.
Imagine not being able to watch a movie, write an email or complete a board game without having to get up to pee, sometimes more than once.
Imagine having pain so bad that some researchers have compared it to the pain level of a patient on dialysis or a person in the early stages of cancer, but medical professionals deny you pain medication.
Imagine having to wake up everyday wondering if you will be in pain or not.
Imagine not being able to wear jeans anymore.
Imagine going to 10 doctors over a span of two years to get a diagnosis.
Imagine being 35 but taking more medications than the average 80 year old.
Imagine being exiled by a friend, family member or significant other who doesn't think that your pain is real.
Imagine always having to know where the nearest bathroom is every time you go out.
Imagine having an illness with no cure and no one exact form of treatment so every day feels like a guessing game.
OPEN YOUR EYES. WELCOME TO THE LIFE OF AN IC PATIENT. Doesn't sound like too much fun does it?
If you have IC I encourage you to comment and to add onto this list.
2 comments:
Thank you so much. Very well said.
Imagine feeling the pain and burning urgency of having a bladder infection. Now imagine feeling those symptoms every minute of every day and night for years and years without it ever going away. Imagine what kind of life thst would be. It is horrible and has ruined my life. I haven't imagined it, but have lived this way for almost 15 years!
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